A Little About Me

• I am 30 and holding. Girls never get older than 30. 30 with 5 years experience - or 30 with 10 years experience - but it's never older than 30 ;) It's the guys who age and become geriatric without much effort mwaahh ha ha.
  
• I've lived in big cities, little towns and everywhere in between. Currently, I live in a rural community. Very rural. Some places are so rural it's safe to go naked. (Maybe THAT'S why UPS and Fed Ex refuse to deliver here, lol.)
• Was in an accident and was incorrectly diagnosed. This incorrect diagnoses led to damage that was irreversible. I've spent a long time relearning everything - from feeding myself without missing my mouth, to holding things without dropping them, to rolling over, to sitting up without falling over, to standing, and now walking, among several other things. Thousands of hours have gone into PT and in front of mirrors to make things look natural again. The amount of work it takes to simply live life everyday is incredibly exhausting. I've managed to make most things look normal again. Still working on a few others, but will have them mastered too.
  
• Since this injury, I've lost a lot in my life. I lost a family member. I lost my livelyhood. I lost my home. I lost my abilities - abilities that most people take for granted (and so did I) - and had to relearn them. I lost my independence and had to regain that. I lost some friends who had a hard time with the fact that I couldn't walk anymore, even though I was working on relearning that. (Fuck them.) I lost three friends to cancer. I lost my best friend in a totally different accident. But I did discover that the most precious thing in life is the people IN your life...your friends and family. I take losses of family and friends hard now adays and love my friends and family with abandon now - maybe because I feel I lost so much with the injury. But my deep care and affection of my friends and family comes from having lost so much - and realizing that really, it's the people in your life that matter. You can lose alot, but if you still have your friends and/or family, your are truly rich.
  
• Despite the negative things, I am very motivated, happy, and positive about life in general. I believe being happy is a choice and that life is often what you choose to make of your situation. My life isn't what I had planned, but then, whose life IS totally what they had planned?
  
• Had several breaks in my back, hips and legs. I also had a skull fracture. This all has contributed to constant pain and an unrelenting, constant headache for many years - ever since the accident.
• I don't take narcotics for my pain except very, very rarely. I can count on one hand the number of times I've resorted to that level pain med in many years. I hate how it makes me feel, so I just distract myself.
• Have found that a spanking actually relieves most of my aches and pains for a while. So, although I don't like the pain of a good spanking the moment it is happening, I like the side effects. Quite the unexpected side effect of a spanking of less pain and better self control. I'll take it!
• 2 horses, 4 cats, 1 opposum, 4 dogs, and 1 turtle (all rescues).
  
• I try to volunteer at several animal shelter places when I feel well enough. I also try to volunteer and hold sick kids whose parents can't be there 24/7 for whatever reason at the hospital when I am up to that.
  
• I try to take classes online on days I can do so.
  
• Am planning on finishing grad school - not much left to complete. Hopefully within the next year, but have other goals to reach 1st. So no time limit there. Just another goal.
  
• Am really wanting to learn to speak German, Russian, Polish, French and several other languages fluently. Currently, I only know swear words in German, Russian and Polish (forgot the Polish), which can be quite nice when you want to talk to a spanker about how you truly feel about things at the moment while you are upended and them not know what you are saying, lol.
  

That's pretty much it in a nutshell.

Spankings definitely help lower pain levels (an unexpected "side effect") and help make me more focused to reach life goals as well. I've also found that spankos are, for the most part, kind, generous, understanding and much more fun than many of the prudes I hung around before spanking! I have to admit, I do have some really fun vanilla friends. It's just so much MORE fun when friends are also spankos! Have met several really nice, fun spankos in real life. Just met a few more at my 1st spanking party (woot!), as well as seeing old friends (old as in we've know each other for a while, as well as old, as in, well, elderly). Spankings, birthday parties, spankings, games, spankings, relaxing, spankings, eating, spankings, just hanging around and chatting. Did I say spankings?

Spanking party news coming soon. Stay tuned.