The Next Step

The next step was for me to start searching through the members of the domestic discipline groups in yahoo I had joined. I systematically went through each name and looked at their profile. After hours and hours (and hours and hours) of searching, I found an ad for a spanker who said he offered exactly what I was looking for. Nothing extreme, nothing sexual, just old fashioned style spanking and related discipline. It took me several weeks to hit the send button after I composed my first email to him, but eventually I did. Lo and behold, he answered. He was a wealth of information to this complete and foolish novice and even taught me how to instant message, lol. I had tons and tons of questions and he took the time to answer them all, as well as to ask tons of questions of me. He also referred me to the Spankingneeds.com site (Spankingtherapy.org had not been "born" yet.) The more questions I asked and the more I answered of him, the more questions came to mind.